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The Marriage Insecurity Doom Loop
If I make it your fault, it doesn't have to be mine.
Oct 12
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Hans Googer
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Permission to Disagree
The thoughts are already there. You just have to create the space for them.
Oct 5
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Hans Googer
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September 2026
Changing, Even at the Margins
It’s the small tweaks that let you know someone’s listening
Sep 28
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Hans Googer
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MAILBAG: Structure That’s Not Soulless
There’s a better way, right?
Sep 21
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Hans Googer
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Optimism as a Discipline, not a Disposition
It might not feel natural, but it is still good
Sep 14
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Hans Googer
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My House Has Butt Holes In It
If they can break it, it isn’t worth having.
Sep 7
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Hans Googer
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August 2026
Why I Don’t Like Saying “God Told Me”
There’s more to a relationship than declarations.
Aug 31
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Hans Googer
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That Fight We Had About Dishes
Not a great idea to try and flip benevolence into chores
Aug 24
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Hans Googer
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Book Review: To Live Well
Virtues for a Chaotic World
Aug 17
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Hans Googer
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Just Get to Baseline
If you're not careful, you can go years frustrated that you aren't any better.
Aug 10
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Hans Googer
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Leadership Coaching at Any Stage
For teams and individuals—geared toward what you need, when you need it.
Aug 7
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Hans Googer
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I Know You've Been Working On It
It takes a while for people to catch on.
Aug 3
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Hans Googer
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