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Memoir Missive: Being a Dad
How a terrible interview brought out the worst in me and a tearful rebuke
Feb 23
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Hans Googer
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It *is* a Big Deal
Even the small offenses matter
Feb 16
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Hans Googer
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Teenage Wisdom is Better Than Dad's
Our son made one of the most important decisions for our family—a decision I didn't want to make
Feb 9
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Hans Googer
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Balance is a Joke
Don't let whatabouts keep you from courage.
Feb 2
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Hans Googer
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January 2026
The Hard Work of Friendship
Why do men struggle to gain and maintain meaningful friendships?
Jan 26
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Use ORCA, not RACI
A clearer, more memorable way to define roles and responsibilities
Jan 19
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Hans Googer
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Memoir Missive: Boundary-Making
A fight over bedrails taught us to stay unified.
Jan 12
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Hans Googer
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Courtney Googer
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Evals and Our Ever-Present Goalpost Moving
Why are we afraid to say "That didn't work"?
Jan 5
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Hans Googer
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December 2025
Our 2025 Retrospective
What we send to several hundred of our closest friends.
Dec 29, 2025
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Hans Googer
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Courtney Googer
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Power Distance and the Incarnation
How Christmas challenges every common understanding of authority
Dec 22, 2025
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Hans Googer
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Sometimes We'd Be Better Saying Less
What My Worst Christmas Taught Me About Parenting
Dec 15, 2025
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Hans Googer
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My 2025 Anchor Habits
What kept me going when I didn't want to
Dec 8, 2025
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Hans Googer
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